{"id":7267,"date":"2026-09-04T01:06:09","date_gmt":"2026-09-04T08:06:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/dont-let-fomo-lead-you-astray\/"},"modified":"2026-09-04T01:06:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-04T08:06:09","slug":"dont-let-fomo-lead-you-astray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/dont-let-fomo-lead-you-astray\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t let FOMO lead you astray"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People are once again trying to sell the idea of RV living.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re all like &quot;It&#8217;s so great! It&#8217;s wonderful!&quot; without ever mentioning how they deal with black\/gray water, maintenance issues, the hardships of having a blown tire on the side of the road, etc.<\/p>\n<p>And honestly, you just know that a lot of those people are not dealing with their black\/gray water issues in a responsible way. There&#8217;s a more than good chance that once they&#8217;re ready to leave an area, they just dump the tanks where they&#8217;re at and flee. Like a bird launching off the ground, emptying its bladder as it lifts off. Just a big ol&#8217; seabird smelly crap splattered everywhere to mark that they were once there.<\/p>\n<p>And I guess RVs can mostly only be parked on private property, as most RV parks have shifted to being non-RV parks. So if you have a piece of land, it might be a good idea. Though if you own a piece of land you&#8217;re going to live on long-term, maybe a trailer would be better.<\/p>\n<p>But the idea of living in an RV and traveling around the country in it?<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people are simply dreaming. They are watching these videos of people living in multimillion dollar RVs and they&#8217;re fantasizing that that&#8217;s going to be them, not realizing that in reality they would not be getting a fancy RV like that. And if they do get one, they won&#8217;t have a few extra million dollars in their bank to give them the &quot;freedom&quot; to not worry about breakdowns, sewage issues, inevitable parts replacement, and just the &quot;Ugh!&quot;-ness of living packed in 12 deep in a confined space with their quiverfull of children.<\/p>\n<p>Van-lifers have become RV-lifers. Why? Because people moved into vans and found out there wasn&#8217;t enough space or safety. So like, &quot;Bigger is better!&quot; with no awareness that if your RV breaks down, that biggerness means it&#8217;s gonna cost a heck of a lot more to get that bitch towed.<\/p>\n<p>At least with a van it will fit into a single parking space.<\/p>\n<p>If your RV is over a certain size or weight, you might need to get a special license to drive it. So all those people making houselike modifications to their RVs? Do they weigh them after they do that to ensure they&#8217;re not going overweight for a standard driver&#8217;s license?<\/p>\n<p>Are they aware that if they have a mechanical problem, they might not just be able to haul their RV to a regular local mechanic&#8217;s shop? ESPECIALLY if they custom ordered their RV and it&#8217;s fully loaded with nonstandard parts?<\/p>\n<p>Like, how much does it cost to change the oil in an RV?<\/p>\n<p>What happens if you get in a car accident with your RV and your passengers\/children are not strapped in while you&#8217;re driving? I mean, even if they&#8217;re not hurt, it might be big legal trouble in a state you&#8217;re not a resident of.<\/p>\n<p>Someone even mentioned that they hated vacationing in their RV because it always retained moisture. So you&#8217;re going to pack all your stuff into a sweaty metal box and just hope for the best?<\/p>\n<p>And of course, RVs do not retain their value. AT ALL. And of course, people are going to be like, &quot;If you buy it to live in it, who cares about the resale value of this massive money dump?&quot; Well, I think anyone that might want to trade it in later for a newer\/better model might care. Anyone that might want to switch to living in a house at some point might care if they&#8217;re going to have to get rid of that giant RV filling their parking spot, ESPECIALLY if it&#8217;s got a blown motor or other issues that result in it needing to be towed away.<\/p>\n<p>And how much is licensing and tags for an RV? How does it work if you don&#8217;t have state residency? Can you lose state residency if you don&#8217;t have a registered street address? Can you lose your driver&#8217;s license if you lose state residency?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s so many considerations for people planning to move into vehicles so they can live on the road. And it&#8217;s not just the dangers of attack, robbery, or of having their vehicle\/house stolen. It&#8217;s also the discomfort of living in a small space, especially if there&#8217;s other people, pets, and children involved.<\/p>\n<p>We all dream of having a room somewhere, far away from the cold night air, it just seems so loverly.<\/p>\n<p>But before making a massive life-changing financial decision like buying an RV&#8230; people need to do more planning than just watching some monetized YouTube videos.<\/p>\n<p>Just saying.<\/p>\n<p>~Harper Kingsley<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/paypal.me\/harperkingsley\">https:\/\/paypal.me\/harperkingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/harperkingsley\">https:\/\/patreon.com\/harperkingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ko-fi.com\/harperwck\">https:\/\/ko-fi.com\/harperwck<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/HarperKingsley\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/HarperKingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amazon.com\/shop\/harperkingsley0\">https:\/\/amazon.com\/shop\/harperkingsley0<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harperkingsley.net\/blog\">https:\/\/www.harperkingsley.net\/blog<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/kimichee.com\">https:\/\/kimichee.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.bsky.social\">https:\/\/harperkingsley.bsky.social<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.smashwords.com\/profile\/view\/HarperKingsley\">https:\/\/www.smashwords.com\/profile\/view\/HarperKingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.everand.com\/author\/262822558\/Harper-Kingsley\">https:\/\/www.everand.com\/author\/262822558\/Harper-Kingsley<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kobo.com\/us\/en\/author\/harper-kingsley\">https:\/\/www.kobo.com\/us\/en\/author\/harper-kingsley<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/author\/harper-kingsley\/id444850597\">https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/author\/harper-kingsley\/id444850597<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People are once again trying to sell the idea of RV living. They&#8217;re all like &quot;It&#8217;s so great! It&#8217;s wonderful!&quot; without ever mentioning how they deal with black\/gray water, maintenance issues, the hardships of having a blown tire on the side of the road, etc. And honestly, you just know that a lot of those&hellip;<\/p>\n <a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/dont-let-fomo-lead-you-astray\/\" title=\"Don&#8217;t let FOMO lead you astray\" class=\"entry-more-link\"><span>Read More<\/span> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Don&#8217;t let FOMO lead you astray<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","Layout":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-harperkingsley0-0","post-7267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2pPoL-1Td","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3930,"url":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/am-i-paranoid-or-should-i-be-more-vigilant\/","url_meta":{"origin":7267,"position":0},"title":"Am I paranoid, or should I be more vigilant?","author":"Harper Kingsley","date":"November 16, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Am I paranoid, or should I be more vigilant? 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