{"id":6946,"date":"2025-06-11T04:14:48","date_gmt":"2025-06-11T11:14:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/11-june-2025-0414\/"},"modified":"2025-06-11T04:14:48","modified_gmt":"2025-06-11T11:14:48","slug":"11-june-2025-0414","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/11-june-2025-0414\/","title":{"rendered":"11 June, 2025 04:14"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Proper aftercare is essential in all walks of life.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I wish I&#8217;d take better care of myself. I wash my hands and forearms. I wash my face and neck. I have washcloths. I moisturize my skin when I remember, though I know I should take better care.<\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s like, I should remember to rinse my mouth out and drink some water after smoking.<\/p>\n<p>I should hydrate and remember to urinate regularly.<\/p>\n<p>More yoga. More stretching. More deep breathing. More beneficial health things that I don&#8217;t commonly do for myself. But that I should.<\/p>\n<p>Beforecare, aftercare, and during care are all necessary things.<\/p>\n<p>Only water goes in the eyes. A lot of it.<\/p>\n<p>Closed-toe shoes. Ones that are lightweight and you can run in, but with soles thick enough to step on broken glass.<\/p>\n<p>I bought some lightweight robes. I may set up a little wardrobe near the front door. That way if someone gets called out of bed without time to dress, there&#8217;s a chance of putting on a robe. 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Sometimes I wish I&#8217;d take better care of myself. I wash my hands and forearms. I wash my face and neck. I have washcloths. I moisturize my skin when I remember, though I know I should take better care. So it&#8217;s like, I should remember to&hellip;<\/p>\n <a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/11-june-2025-0414\/\" title=\"11 June, 2025 04:14\" class=\"entry-more-link\"><span>Read More<\/span> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">11 June, 2025 04:14<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"Layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-harperkingsley0-0","post-6946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2pPoL-1O2","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5510,"url":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/we-are-the-majority\/","url_meta":{"origin":6946,"position":0},"title":"We are the majority","author":"Harper Kingsley","date":"May 8, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"So... 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