{"id":6832,"date":"2024-12-01T04:58:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-01T12:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/thoughts-and-stuff\/"},"modified":"2024-12-01T04:58:00","modified_gmt":"2024-12-01T12:58:00","slug":"thoughts-and-stuff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/thoughts-and-stuff\/","title":{"rendered":"thoughts and stuff"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve watched some things recently, movies and TV shows. My brain is processing the new input.<\/p>\n<h2>DEAR SATAN<\/h2>\n<p>It was an amusing movie.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the messaging was a <em>little<\/em> bit&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Not a kids movie. Please do not think that it&#8217;s a movie for children just because one of the stars is the Kung Fu Panda himself.<\/p>\n<h2>THE GLORY (KOREAN SHOW)<\/h2>\n<p>Holy shit.<\/p>\n<p>I get why it&#8217;s gotten such great returns. It&#8217;s an imminently watchable show. Though it&#8217;s <em>definitely<\/em> not for everyone. Dark content is addressed without heavy graphic visuals (some are shown) and I appreciate that the implications are clear without them indulging in torture!porn.<\/p>\n<p>For reals directors: A lot of that shit can go in your Hardcore collection. You <em>can<\/em> make multiple cuts of a movie or TV show and let the audience decide what they want to put their families through.<\/p>\n<p>For reals: You want to watch &quot;the super awesome cool show that EVERYONE is binge-watching like crazy&quot; but you want to watch it on the living room screen.<\/p>\n<p>You want to be able to watch your show while you&#8217;re doing chores around the house.<\/p>\n<p>Your family and friends and coworkers want to be able to chill the fuck out.<\/p>\n<p>And sorry perviewers: A sex scene can really cast a chill on a roomful of people.<\/p>\n<p>Not everyone&#8217;s comfortable watching that stuff. And even more people are made uncomfortable by watching that stuff amongst an audience.<\/p>\n<p>Dial it back.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to have to judge whether a show is going to show genitals or not. That should be information readily available before going in.<\/p>\n<p>As long as there&#8217;s a ratings system that&#8217;s true to form, you can know that a show or movie has a limit to what it&#8217;s going to show or suggest.<\/p>\n<p>I <em>HATE<\/em> that some people try to push the rating system so hard.<\/p>\n<p>Rate your stuff for adult audiences. Stop trying to push the limits of what&#8217;s allowable.<\/p>\n<p>You know your show should not be watched by teenagers and children. YOU KNOW THIS.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not subverting a useless system that&#8217;s holding everyone in a knucklehood of iron wrapped fist.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re showing your content to children.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;But they&#8217;re teenagers! They&#8217;re not <em>children<\/em>!&quot;&#8211;They are minors. They are young people that need to be protected. Sometimes from themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Label your shit correctly.<\/p>\n<p>And labeling organizations need to get with the fucking program. There is some PG-13 stuff that should be rated for adult audiences. And &quot;adult audiences&quot; should not solely be content that contains graphic sex and violence. Or at least, the public should not instinctively see it as such.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just that there is some content that is intended for people with adult mentalities.<\/p>\n<p>The ability to discern entertainment from reality. An instinct for &quot;looking underneath the underneath&quot; to get more that the basic idea of what&#8217;s going on.<\/p>\n<p>Take &quot;The Glory&quot; for instance: There&#8217;s a lot of relationship stuff happening there. Old friends. Hidden lovers. A group of rotten kids that grew up to become rotten adults. A curling iron.<\/p>\n<p>It is definitely an adult show for adult audiences that want to watch adult content that&#8217;s not-too graphic while also getting its point across about the horrific things that were done to the main character.<\/p>\n<p>Like, there&#8217;s a clear divide between content like &quot;Old Boy&quot; and &quot;Train to Busan&quot; for the kinds of audiences you&#8217;d show them to. &quot;Old Boy&quot; is not for everyone. And that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>Stop watching movies you KNOW you won&#8217;t enjoy just so you can join the conversation about movies. In-depth reviews exist for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>You can know the outline of the story and be able to enjoy the conversation happening around you. Hearing someone else explain a movie (or book) to you can really give you an idea of what kind of person they are.<\/p>\n<p>Would you want to marry someone and plan to spend your next 50 years with them, only to figure out 5 years in that you can&#8217;t stand the way they ruin movies for you?<\/p>\n<p>Just saying.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, you know, seeing how someone responds to a movie tells you a lot about them and their worldview. Like if they show <em>way<\/em> too much enthusiasm for the wrong thing.<\/p>\n<p>~Harper Kingsley<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/paypal.me\/harperkingsley\">https:\/\/paypal.me\/harperkingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/harperkingsley\">https:\/\/patreon.com\/harperkingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ko-fi.com\/harperwck\">https:\/\/ko-fi.com\/harperwck<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amazon.com\/shop\/harperkingsley0\">https:\/\/amazon.com\/shop\/harperkingsley0<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harperkingsley.net\/blog\">https:\/\/www.harperkingsley.net\/blog<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/kimichee.com\">https:\/\/kimichee.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/HarperKingsley\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/HarperKingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.bsky.social\">https:\/\/harperkingsley.bsky.social<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.smashwords.com\/profile\/view\/HarperKingsley\">https:\/\/www.smashwords.com\/profile\/view\/HarperKingsley<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve watched some things recently, movies and TV shows. My brain is processing the new input. DEAR SATAN It was an amusing movie. Maybe the messaging was a little bit&#8230; Not a kids movie. Please do not think that it&#8217;s a movie for children just because one of the stars is the Kung Fu Panda&hellip;<\/p>\n <a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/thoughts-and-stuff\/\" title=\"thoughts and stuff\" class=\"entry-more-link\"><span>Read More<\/span> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">thoughts and stuff<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"Layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-harperkingsley0-0","post-6832","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2pPoL-1Mc","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":275,"url":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/movie-review-pandorum-sci-fi-horror\/","url_meta":{"origin":6832,"position":0},"title":"MOVIE REVIEW: Pandorum [sci-fi, horror]","author":"Harper Kingsley","date":"January 31, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Title: Pandorum Genre: sci-fi, horror Rating: R Director: Christian Alvart Writers: Travis Milloy (screenplay) Stars: Dennis Quaid, Ben Foster, Cam Gigandet Summary borrowed from IMDB: A pair of crew members aboard a spaceship wake up with no knowledge of their mission or their identities. ---------------------------- If you like gritty sci-fi\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Movie Reviews&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Movie Reviews","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/category\/reviews\/movie-reviews\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/img.youtube.com\/vi\/yMEhkTxs3_E\/0.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":6922,"url":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/i-hate-my-paper-skin\/","url_meta":{"origin":6832,"position":1},"title":"I hate my paper skin","author":"Harper Kingsley","date":"May 9, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"The skin on my hands is so thin. 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