{"id":6725,"date":"2024-03-22T02:29:57","date_gmt":"2024-03-22T09:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/notes-5\/"},"modified":"2024-03-22T02:29:57","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T09:29:57","slug":"notes-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/notes-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Notes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I like the experience of other peoples&#8217; lives. In seeing other peoples&#8217; ways of thoughts. Translated through books and movies.<\/p>\n<p>So that if I&#8217;m talking to someone, and they start talking about a particular book or series in a questionable way&#8230; I can tell whether we&#8217;re going to be fighting in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Like, &#8220;How to Recognize a Sociopath 101.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If I don&#8217;t hear a &#8220;It was bonkers!&#8221; or &#8220;There&#8217;s some serious blood and gore and it&#8217;s definitely not for everyone&#8221; in there&#8230; side-eye city.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve found that the scariest thing to discover was that some people take books and movies seriously.<\/p>\n<p>The writer can be <em>screaming<\/em> out their disdain and hatred for the subject matter, and some reader will be like &#8220;The Evil Empire is <em>really<\/em> bad ass. This author gets me. <em>I&#8217;d<\/em> join the Evil Empire if it was real.&#8221; vibes.<\/p>\n<p>For reals, yo: I don&#8217;t want to live through your personal World War II reenactment fantasy.<\/p>\n<p>Holster your excitement, buddy.<\/p>\n<p>The fun thing about reenactments is being able to go home afterward. When we&#8217;re really in an End of the World-scenario due to the personal whims of a few, it&#8217;s not fun. It&#8217;s stressful and unpleasant.<\/p>\n<p>I am not a sims character. I did not sign on to be some kind of a simulicra in someone else&#8217;s &#8220;Ruler of the World!&#8221; fantasy.<\/p>\n<p>Reading for-fun novels can really give a clear glimpse into the minds of other people. The story is being seen through the eye of the author. The things they would notice when looking around a room. Or the things they would think about at home afterward.<\/p>\n<p>The way people talk about books and movies and TV shows is a precursor to their later behavior. A clue about the kind of person they would be.<\/p>\n<p>When a big &#8220;bright but grimdark&#8221; piece of media comes out, the way people react to it says a lot about them. And I&#8217;m not talking about when you talk about a piece of media even though the person says they don&#8217;t want to hear about it and they respond negatively.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about when the person brings it up on their own. Like, it wasn&#8217;t a part of the conversation, but now it&#8217;s here and <em>everyone<\/em> has an opinion on it, some louder and more fervent than others.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s a <em>really<\/em> problematic piece of work. Mostly because of consumer response to it.<\/p>\n<p>Like, &#8220;I don&#8217;t think it should <em>not<\/em> exist, but it&#8217;s not my cup of tea. I prefer This to That&#8221; is my casual mindset. But I don&#8217;t think people should be bringing it up in front of children or in business settings.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure parents don&#8217;t appreciate their young children talking about chest-bursters in questionable language. Much as they don&#8217;t want their children to learn about romance through GoT.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know. Moderation is key.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I like the experience of other peoples&#8217; lives. In seeing other peoples&#8217; ways of thoughts. Translated through books and movies. So that if I&#8217;m talking to someone, and they start talking about a particular book or series in a questionable way&#8230; I can tell whether we&#8217;re going to be fighting in the future. Like, &#8220;How&hellip;<\/p>\n <a href=\"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/notes-5\/\" title=\"Notes\" class=\"entry-more-link\"><span>Read More<\/span> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Notes<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"Layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-harperkingsley0-0","post-6725","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2pPoL-1Kt","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3955,"url":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/why-do-you-have-to-ruin-christmas-its-not-for-you-its-for-the-kids\/","url_meta":{"origin":6725,"position":0},"title":"Why *DO* you have to ruin Christmas? 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