{"id":2424,"date":"2013-04-27T11:53:46","date_gmt":"2013-04-27T18:53:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.harperkingsley.net\/blog\/2013\/04\/forgot-a-basic-truth-until-i-remembered\/"},"modified":"2023-10-17T23:38:01","modified_gmt":"2023-10-18T06:38:01","slug":"forgot-a-basic-truth-until-i-remembered","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harperkingsley.net\/blog\/forgot-a-basic-truth-until-i-remembered\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgot a basic truth until I remembered"},"content":{"rendered":"

So while I was quietly freaking out, it took me until last night to remember these are self-imposed deadlines with only one of the three really, no contest having to happen.<\/p>\n

That’s part of my problem. I put too much stress on myself instead of holding to the old adage of “Slow and steady wins the race.”<\/p>\n

I’ve never liked the idea of being slow, but steady is the perfect pace. As long as something is happening each day, a story will build itself up, the words will add up, and suddenly a novel will appear.<\/p>\n

It’s like magic beans. Something worthless becomes something invaluable. It just needs a chance to grow.<\/p>\n

500 words a day x 5 days = 2500 words a week.
\n2500 words x 4 weeks = 10,000 words a month.
\n10,000 words x 12 months = 120,000 words.<\/p>\n

Sometimes there’s this urge to do everything at once and force a story to submit, but that just doesn’t work. The words come at a slow trickle and refuse to be rushed. Work with that. Gather up what’s willing to be said and build up what you can. Don’t waste the productivity just because a story hasn’t possessed your fingers like Stephen King and decided to be written all in a day.<\/p>\n

Seriously, I’ve had that happen before. A story took over and seemed to write itself, 20,000 words in less than five hours. It was like flying. But that kind of thing is rare.<\/p>\n

Writing is work. Fun work a lot of the time, but still work.<\/p>\n

It’s like building a house. You assemble the pieces, follow a plan, then get down to putting it all together. It’s just that with writing, you have to make the bricks first.<\/p>\n

And I’ve been pressuring myself so much to have a finished product that I haven’t been able to focus on putting it together. So what does that mean?<\/p>\n

I’m going back to basics. I’m working on this story until it’s done, not until a specified date. I’m finishing up my proofing. I’m editing my story. I’m letting my creativity have some freedom instead of stifling it.<\/p>\n

And from the look of things, there should be three written novels in the next month, two edited novels, and that fanfic thing we don’t talk about (even though I’m quietly squeeing at the awesome.)<\/p>\n

Stop stressing about writing as much or more than anyone else. Write like yourself at your own pace. All the agonizing is supposed to happen with the editing, not with your first draft.<\/p>\n

The first draft is supposed to be fun times with characters you love, or love to hate.<\/p>\n

* * *<\/p>\n

Read slashy plotty mm stories free at Kimichee<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So while I was quietly freaking out, it took me until last night to remember these are self-imposed deadlines with only one of the three really, no contest having to happen. That’s part of my problem. 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